Just because you’re mature doesn’t mean you’re immune to STDs.If you’re having sex at any age, you should definitely use condoms!
Not to mention, as an older adult you’re also still vulnerable to other STI’s like Herpes, Gonorrhoea, Chlamydia and Syphilis to name a few.
I met a man who was comfortable talking about sex, and patient and interested enough to introduce me to sex which was not like a gift, sex where my pleasure was as important for him as his own. And then, it became even more unusual and not following conventional path or morality, I never thought I was a sexual being.
I realised what most other women probably always knew, sex was fun. I was not interested in sex as a young woman, and really only became sexually active because it was expected of me.
When someone pushes you away for someone else, that doesn’t mean that you are undatable. Conquering your fear of rejection is crucial if you want to have an awesome sex life.
It only means that you didn’t meet the exact criteria of what that person was looking for’ and that’s okay. Just because you’re Mature doesn’t mean you should settle for anything less than what you want or become desperate.